STOP FIGHTING TODAY...
Transform conflict into connection and resolve issues once and for all.
- One of you is upset, the other gets defensive or withdrawals
- Neither of you experience being heard or understood
- Issues don't get resolved and resentment builds
- Things keep escalating or you stop talking all together
Thriving relationships requires functional communication around the issues and challenges that inevitably come up. My superpower is helping people navigate these conflicts and connect deeply, even in the face of serious challenges and intense emotions.
Drawing on my three years of mentoring with John Kinyon, the pioneer of Nonviolent Communication conflict mediation, I developed Thrive Decks to make this powerful, transformative approach accessible to anyone seeking connection, harmony, solutions, and healing.
1. GUIDED CONVERSATIONS
The fighting habits we learn don't work. These decks bring structure to talking about issues so that you slow down and really hear each other.
2. YOURS, AVAILABLE 24X7
The decks live with you at home or in the office. Any time you want to talk about an issue, just pull it out and go through the simple process.
3. SUPPORT AS NEEDED
Start with small issues and work up to bigger ones to master the cards. If you need help, myself and my peers can help you resolve most conflicts.
How Thrive Decks Transform Lives:
01
Order your decks
Order the decks, or the complete kit with the decks, two prep logbooks, and an agreement logbook. The printing company I use prints on demand, and will usually ship your orders within 3 business days.
02
Stop fighting, start prepping
Watch the training while the decks are on the way to learn why the way we habitually handle conflict doesn’t work and what to do instead.
Then, follow the process to start logging issues and prepping for productive conversations… and wait to talk about them until the decks arrive.
The training handles many different situations and skills. You don’t need to watch all 70+ videos to get started!
03
Talk with the decks
Once the decks arrive, use the process from the training and in the decks to invite people into conversations about issues that are safer and more productive.
DECK 1: Guides you to understand each other about everyday issues and to create agreements that work for both of you.
DECK 2: When you’re practiced with the process in the first deck, add deck two for help with more challenging conversations around healing hurts and rifts between you and others.
Each card tells you exactly what to do at that step. If you need clarification, scan the QR code on the deck to jump straight to that training video.
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Here’s Everything You’re Getting
50
Coaching Cards
4
Log Books
70+
Coaching Videos
8
PDF Worksheets
1
Private Community
Thrive Decks Core Deck, Expansion Deck, and Logbooks (SHIPPED):
MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING AND AGREEMENTS CORE COACHING DECK
24 cards to guide you through everyday conflict, issues, complaints, disagreements, arguments, and fights to reconnect you and resolve it, so you get your needs met.
SHIPPED
INCLUDED
RECONCILIATION AND HEALING EXPANSION DECK
26 cards to guides you through understanding, healing, and moving forward around more challenging topics where one or both of you have found the other’s actions painful.
SHIPPED
INCLUDED
PREP LOGBOOK 1
The 131-page logbook helps you log topics and prep for conversations to make it easier for the other person to participate, and more likely for you to get your needs met.
SHIPPED
INCLUDED
PREP LOGBOOK 2
A second prep logbook for yourself when you fill up the first one, or to share with a partner so they can log topics and prep for conversations as well.
SHIPPED
INCLUDED
AGREEMENT LOGBOOK
The 99-page shared agreement logbook goes with your agreement cards and keeps track of all your agreements that come out of these conversations.
SHIPPED
INCLUDED
COUPLE CONNECTION LOGBOOK
The 119-page bonus logbook for couples keeps track of your connection work, quality time plans, connection bids, and connection rituals.
SHIPPED
INCLUDED
Training and Support (ONLINE):
MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING AND AGREEMENTS COURSE
Video coaching course on how to navigate everyday conflict, with a video for each action card in the deck.
INSTANT ACCESS
INCLUDED
RECONCILIATION AND HEALING COURSE
Video coaching course on navigating more challenging topics, with a video for each action card in the deck.
INSTANT ACCESS
INCLUDED
PRIVATE FACEBOOK SUPPORT GROUP
Join the new Conflict To Harmony group to find practice partners, empathy buddies, and to ask us questions.
COMING SOON
BONUS #1
ONGOING DEMOS
We’ll continually create videos to role-play how to have conversations with scenarios brought by the community.
COMING SOON
BONUS #2
Instant Access Online Worksheets (ONLINE):
WHEEL OF LIFE ASSESSMENTS
Find topics to talk about to strategically keep making your life better over time, and see your improvements!
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #3
APPRECIATION LOG & FORMULA
Keep track of what you appreciate about the people in your life, and share in a way that really connects at the heart.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #4
OPPORTUNITY LOG
Prep for conversations and move past any judgments or critical energy so it is easier to connect and talk.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #5
AGREEMENT LOG
Document all your main, supporting, and restoring agreements and action plans so you’re on the same page.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #6
CONNECTION CALENDAR & VIDEO
Ensure that you do the things most needed each week to keep your relationship improving and thriving.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #7
QUALITY TIME PLANNER & VIDEO
Plan out a variety of ways to keep having fun and enjoyable time together where you’re bonding.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #8
CONNECTION BID DISCOVERY & VIDEO
Identify and log ways that you both can use to reconnect when you get into arguments and fights.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #9
CONNECTION RITUALS & VIDEO
Discover lots of little ways to continually show your love and care for each other, in ways you both appreciate.
INSTANT ACCESS
BONUS #10
Start navigating conflict in a way that eliminates fights and arguments, and start recovering from hurts between you and the people you care about. Begin the process of making your relationships thrive today!
Pay Over Time With:
Free Shipping in USA. Discounted Shipping Everywhere Else.
Just The Decks
Send me the decks, plus access to the courses and the online PDF version of the logbooks.
- Deck 1: Mutual Understanding
- Deck 2: Reconciliation & Healing
- 2 Prep Logbooks
- 1 Agreement Logbook
- 1 Couples Logbook
- Conflict to Thriving Course
- 8 PDF Workbooks
- Facebook Group (Coming Soon)
- Ongoing Demos (Coming Soon)
- 5 Discounted 90-Minute Sessions
Complete Kit
Send me the decks and logbooks, plus access to the courses and the online PDF version of the logbooks.
- Deck 1: Mutual Understanding
- Deck 2: Reconciliation & Healing
- 2 Prep Logbooks
- 1 Agreement Logbook
- 1 Couples Logbook
- Conflict to Thriving Course
- 8 PDF Workbooks
- Facebook Group (Coming Soon)
- Ongoing Demos (Coming Soon)
- 5 Discounted 90-Minute Sessions
Complete Kit + 5 Sessions
Send me everything, plus FIVE 1.5 hour sessions with John or one of his peers to personally help me.
- Deck 1: Mutual Understanding
- Deck 2: Reconciliation & Healing
- 2 Prep Logbooks
- 1 Agreement Logbook
- 1 Couples Logbook
- Conflict to Thriving Course
- 8 PDF Workbooks
- Facebook Group (Coming Soon)
- Ongoing Demos (Coming Soon)
- 5 Discounted 90-Minute Sessions
Frequently Asked Questions
50 cards and 70 videos? Do I need to learn it all?
You’ll start having conversations with JUST the first deck and the overview videos.
The other deck, detailed videos, and other tools are all optional and go into more depth on each step as needed. It’s all optional, designed to help with different types of conversations, managing different situations, processing different feelings, and for overall life improvement, beyond conversations.
How does pay over time work?
At checkout, you can choose one of the options to pay monthly instead of all at once. The services available to you will vary depending on where you live. These are loans offered by trusted independent companies through the payment processor, Stripe, and there is a quick approval process based on your credit rating. Depending on your credit rating and how many months you choose to pay over, there may be zero-interest options, or a fee. I frequently use these services to pay monthly for products I purchase, to get things that meet my needs while keeping things within my budget.
How long will they take to ship?
You’ll get access to the courses and PDFs right after you order, which teaches you the entire process and actually get’s you started prepping for conversations.
The decks and logbooks are printed on demand, so it takes about 3 days to process your order, and 3-5 days to ship your order in the U.S. In other locations, you’ll have two choices for delivery time, and I’ve discounted your shipping cost by what it costs to ship in the U.S.
How much is shipping?
Shipping is included in the United States because that is where the printing company is, and shipping costs are lower.
Outside of the states, you will have two options for shipping, a less expensive option that takes longer and a more expensive option that is 3-5 business days. In either case, for fairness, these options are both discounted by the amount we would otherwise pay to ship if you were in the U.S. You will be able to see that pricing once you enter your country in the shipping form.
How do I book sessions and what's your availability?
I’ll contact you by email shortly after you purchase to figure this out. I’m in Pacific Time Zone and pretty flexible with my time, as helping clients is my work.
If you’re in another part of the world, or things just don’t work out with timing, you’ll have a couple of options. One is a refund on the sessions. The other is to work with one of my trusted colleagues around the world, who I’ll put you in touch with.
What's the guarantee?
Of course it’s important to invest your money wisely. This process works for most people, but there is no way to guarantee it will work for you, or to guarantee you will follow the steps. I’m a one-person shop, so I can guarantee that if the product arrives damaged, that I’ll replace it. So, please be confident that this is the right product for you before buying.
If you buy sessions and you find that after the first one, you don’t think they are for you, I’ll refund the complete payment, minus the cost of the kit, so you won’t pay for the session you use, or the remaining ones.
